I met an attorney at the OC Family Law Courthouse who may be able to help you. His name is James R. Stout and he is located in South OC. His office number is 949-878-7392. If he is unable to do it pro bono, I know he charges less than every other family law attorny I know in OC.
Unfortunately there are no attorneys that do pro bono work but you might qualify for a modest means attorney. Contact your local attorney bar association to see if they have a modest means program and if you qualify. If not, your only option is going to the family law facilitator and they may be able to assist you in preparing a stipulation and order if you have reached an agreement with your ex.
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In addition to my colleagues' answers, you could also seek the assistance of the Public Law Center in Santa Ana. They provide some limited legal assistance as well as help in matching you up with an attorney on a pro bono basis.
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