There are to many issues in your question. Seek out a local divorce attorney for advice.
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Your question does not provide anywhere near enough information to form an answer. In terms of preparation, you should gather as much information/documentation as you can to provide to an attorney and/or the court (if you represent yourself) so that a proper answer can be given.
In addition to the financial information, other factors can play a role in impacting the result. For example, the length of the marriage, employment, fault and the like can play effect an outcome.
I think you need to sit down with an attorney and review the entire situation before a response to your underlying question can be answered.