At the PC you will meet with the judge and your spouse's attorney. The judge will determine what issues are agreed upon and which are not. The judge will tell you and your spouse's attorney to exchange financial statements (statements of net worth) and perhaps other discovery. The judge will schedule another date to return for a compliance conference. At the PC you can ask the judge to adjourn so that you can return with your own attorney.
The time period from when you get a request for a Preliminary Conference (PC), until the conference itself can run about a month and a half to 2 months in Suffolk County. You should probably not go to a PC without an attorney. The Judge will urge you strongly to get one. The judge will set dates to complete discovery and decide whether experts are necessary, as well as see what issues are resolved. If you make the wrong decisions it may hamper your case later on. It's best to seek a local attorney.
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The above is a general answer and is not considered legal advice. You should contact an attorney before proceeding to take any legal action, signing any papers or upon service of a summons. Howard E. Knispel 631-864-7589
Schedule an appointment with an attorney to review your options. Prepare a statement of net worth which will list your assets and liabllities and your income and expenses. Gather up recent paystubs and tax returns.
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