Each of you needs to hire his own counsel. There are no shortcuts.
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The short answer is that both of you need to hire criminal attorneys to fight this case. This is the kind of charge that can lead to diversion (no criminal record), dismissal, or a conviction depending on a number of factors and which attorney you get. Best of luck.