Well the first thing you should do is consult with and retain am experienced attorney. Domestic violence is something you do want to have on your record. It is up the State Attorney as to whether you will be charged or not. An attorney needs to speak with you and then they can contact the State Attorney to give them your side of the story. An attorney may be able to prevent charges be filed. If you need any further information please feel free to contact me. I wish you the best of luck.
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You need to talk to an attorney asap. Depending on what you did, you might need a criminal defense attorney but certainly a family law attorney.......
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Self defense is an affirmative defense that you may have to assert in trial. It sounds as if you are being charged with the crime. You should hire an attorney, who may decide to see if the alleged victim is interested in declining to prosecute, which may or may not matter to the state attorney's office. If the case is charged and, after litigating it and filing appropriate motions, the state still wants to go forward, you may need to take the case to trial. I suggest you hire an experienced attorney now. Feel free to contact me if you have further questions, including related to the specific facts of your case. An accurate assessment is difficult to give based on a question on the internet.
Alcohol, that great instigator, is at it again. Seems like nothing good ever comes of these things. But, we all must deal with the wreckage. Whether you acted in "self defense," and everything else needs to be handled by a professional, ma'am. Do not try to piece it together yourself, because it's impossible for you to do that. As all the other lawyers have already advised, get yourself a lawyer and let him/her get the discovery and figure out your best defense.