my husband and I had a party at our home, we all had been drinking. I got in a verbal fight with a girl. next thing I know her cousin smashed my head- I try to run inside but my husband held me back and told me to calm down perhaps thinking I was gonna grab something or go crazy. My brother in law called the police and I was arrested for open hand hitting my husband. Nobody pressed charges, no pictures were taken. Did I act in self defense or did I commit a crime?