I met a man four years ago and apparently he has been playing me for cash for all this time. I just found out he is married, history of violence and mental instability. He has my truck that I bought, so I’m filing to get that back with starting the cerrified letter. How do I handle the theft from storage units and my house? I know it’s a cival matter and will be a he said she said. He stole items in storage from my grandfather and father, Old coins, Barbies, knives, tools old happy meal toys, etc. my unit was filled with so many items and he was stealing anything he could get his hands on in our house, Jewelry, cameras things in our garage, etc. I gave this man access to everything and never questioned him until his wife reaches out. I know I will not get my stuff back, but I need to know how to nail this man. The wife claims to want to help, but again she is his wife who left him once and cane back so I’m cautious to trust her.
Stealing is not a civil matter--that is a criminal act: report theft to police.
If you gave things to him as gifts--they are his.
If you gave him your car and the title is in his name--the car is his.
If he professed love for you and as a result you gave him your belongings---that is likely going to be a problem for you in terms of recovering anything.
Best option: meet with a local attorney and discuss many of the missing details that need to be understood in order to determine if you have any kind of case.
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