Well it sounds like you need to speak to an attorney for a number of reasons. First, you need to protect your money and make sure that your husband is not spending the funds the two of you have acquired on things that will eventually hurt you. If your husband is spending money on another, without your permission, and certain obligations go unpaid (mortgage, car payments, utilities, etc), you may be harmed (credit, forclosure, etc).
Second, it sounds like you need to start thinking about protecting yourself from future harm. If divorce or dissolution is the only way to un-connect yourself from your husband's financial irresponsibility, then that may be necessary.
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152 N. Summit St., Ste. 205
Toledo, Ohio 43604
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