My husband is an off and on addict, he has cheated, and is currently on drugs. Don’t know where he is exactly And don’t know our financial situation as we have desperate accounts. I have a good job and don’t rely on him for financial support..,but scared to take the first step.
The call on whether to file for divorce is always the client's, so it is a personal decision that you have to make before anything. If you are worried about not knowing where he is and serving him the paperwork, that is definitely a concern but also something that can be worked out. There are a few things that can be done to find him or, if absolutely necessary, serve your husband without actually personally serving him.
Again, it is your personal decision whether you want to move forward or not. Probably consulting an attorney would be a good step so you can obtain more information, be walked through the process and what is involved for your children.
Best of luck.
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