There are a number of forms that are required, especially when there is a child involved. The forms can be found on the New York Judicial Website (see below). Under the circumstances you described the process is not simple and could take some time to get all the forms right. You would do best to retain an attorney to do this for you.
Law Office of Joseph S Hubicki
386 Park Avenue South
New York, New York 10016
You can find the forms you need on the New York Court's website. www.courts.state.ny.us. There is no specific form that you need because he is out of the country.
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