I'm sorry to hear that your marriage isn't working out, but if you believe divorce is the right thing for you, I urge you to contact a family lawyer to get the best information you can about what you may expect to happen. It is in your husband's interest to convince you that you have no other option but to do things his way, but you are entitled to have independent advice from a lawyer of your own choosing, and that's exactly what you should do before making any decisions. Your specific question about moving out of the county where you presently live is something best discussed with an attorney in your area, but the general rule is that a court can restrict your child's residence to certain counties or a certain geographical distance. A family lawyer could advise you of what you can do. Good luck to you.
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