the divorce could happen either place, but since you are going to bring it, it will have to be in Oklahoma, unless you can meet the residency requirements of the state where W is. You will need an attorney. She will need a guardian. You may want to discuss the matter with the staff of the hospital; they probably have seen more of these cases than any attorney has. I suggest you contact the Oklahoma legal referral service here: http://www.lrsok.com/ They can set up an initial meeting with an attorney for a small fee. You may also want to check with Legal Aid; they may be able to represent your wife for no fee or for a reduced fee. Good luck.Ask a similar question
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