since I have allowed him to come into my home a few times and went out with this person of whom I have a 3 year pertected order against does that get me in trouble and does that mean it's now invalid? I went to the police today with my son because he was threating me in my home and locked me up and tossed me around a bit and so in self defense I hit him in face and he has a slight mark on forehead and police said he can press charges on me and I can on him is this true? I feared for my safty why should I go to jail? Please help !!!!!