Sibling demanding I give some of my mother's money, but it's not my money to give. I am a caregiver 24/7 for my mother. I have POA. Isn't this extortion? I have to rely on my mother for food and board, can't hold down job and caregive at same time. Who would come after me? Courts? Protective services? How can I prove I don't rip her off? She says help myself to her money, but I rarely take it. We never buy luxury stuff, I don't have time to enjoy it anyway. I think I should get an attorney, what practice helps caregivers? Also, siblings name is on bank account, I would like to transfer it out in case sibling makes withdrawl. I don't want to spend it, just get it safe until things settle down. Is this ok? BTW, I am a very diligent caregiver. Thanks for any relpys.