TRICKY QUESTION. Filing a COS before your grace period expired would have been fine ... if he was in H at the time you filed. The fact that his H won't 'kick-in' until October 1st puts you into a 'gray area'.
Why? Because, if immigration had the ability to immediately approve the papers ... they couldn't have been approved ... due to the fact that your husband's H isn't valid yet.
1. Meet with an attorney ... your COS may be at risk.
2. Meet with an attorney ... an AOS for you may also be riskly.
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Mr. Capriotti makes a good point. There is an issue as to whether the STEM extension is in place for an H4 dependent. Assuming so, you have yet to be approved for the COS , which is of concern. It may be frustrating to wait, so you should discuss the consequences of your hasty proposition with a candid and competent immigration attorney. Good luck.
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The Professore conducts excellent analysis. Ah, the truth hurts sometimes, doesn't it?
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As explained by my esteemed colleagues, your issues are complex and potentially tricky. Do yourself a favor and hire an experienced immigration attorney - you live in Chicago, so there are very many and very excellent ones available to assist you with this. Relying on an on-line format for such sensitive advice is not your best option here. Good luck!
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Generally, a person is allowed to stay in the U.S. during the pendency of their timely filed application for change of status, or extension of status.
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