If you fail to appear for a contempt hearing, you could be held in contempt. You should discuss this with your lawyer. It might be possible to work out a payment plan regarding the attorney's fees that would enable you to stay here and avoid the cost and lost wages to return. That might well be your most cost-effective option. Good luck.
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