You are not married to him so the family law courts do not have jurisdiction and can not help you. You would have to bring a civil action against him in order to pursue him. It is very difficult when you trust someone and they betray that trust. It is a tough situation and I would recommend you hire a civil litigation attorney right away. Hope this helps.
There is no quick "help" for you on this one since you are not within the purview of Chapter 61 (Florida's divorce code) along with its rights and remedies.
You will need to consider hiring a real estate attorney and proceed against him on a number of different possible theories. HOWEVER, the real problem that you face is that you could EASILY spend 10k in attorney's fees trying to recover your 10k....or at least a significant part of that----and you cannot get to an award of attorney's fees because there is not a contractual or statutory basis for an award of attorney's fees. The best chance that you might have to recover attorney's fees would be under an demand for judgment settlement pursuant to the rules of civil procedure and Florida Statutes. However, you still would have a claim against him (likely several actually) and he would have to pay money to defend those claims with his own attorney. So it would behoove him to simply give you either your 10k back or some portion of it. It's a mess. Good luck!
Bill Rosenfelt 407-462-8787 (Orlando/Longwood/Central Florida)
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This is not a family law question. I would recommend you consult with a civil attorney that handles real estate matters, lawsuits, etc. and see if you have any remedies to recoup the money invested.
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Until you are legally married, the equitable distribution discussion can not be discussed. Even if you are acting as a married couple does not matter. Your best hope is to consult with a tort attorney to go over other options you may have. It is great that you kept all of those records; present them to the attorney you retain.