My stepdad has been living with me for 10 months, he has Alzheimer's Disease. My mom would put him in a home. Mom is 80, stepdad is 82. They've been married 8 years. He has a good retirement, he retired before they married. Her spending is out of control and don't think he will be able to afford a nursing home when the time comes. My stepdad has had all their expenses on automatic payment for a couple years. She spends and spends She has sold both his cars and bought herself a fancy new car, has sold off all of his things and is selling his house. She is out of control, diagnosed with early stages of Dementia. How do I get control of the situation? I have Durable Power of Attorney for both parents. What can I do?