First of all, contempt requires a willful failure to pay. If he didn't pay because he literally COULDNT, then that's not really contempt. However, he should have filed a petition to modify the support when he lost his job.
To keep the judge from finding him in contempt, he needs to go to the county clerk and make a payment. As much as he can afford. Needs to be at least several hundred dollars. And he needs to pay SOMETHING every week until the court date. That will show the court that he is trying.
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I am not aware of a form that will address your issues. If you don't wish to hire an attorney, perhaps a well-thought letter to the judge will get you a hearing and then you will need to prove your case at the hearing. While you can represent yourself, I highly recommend you hire an attorney to help you with these issues. You likely will only get one chance to present your case.
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