I am sorry for your circumstances. It is not clear from your summary if your husband has the necessary capacity to sign a POA. If not, then you are stuck with a guardianship proceeding for him. I do not think you will be able to find an attorney to work on that for no fee. You might try a legal aid clinic or then State Bar, to see if they can connect you with pro bono lawyers in your area.
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Agreed ... And I am sorry for your situation.
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