If you can't find a spouse, see the guide linked below. As to cost, that will depend upon the attorney you hire - interview some, explain the situation, and see what they say.
Your cost will vary because you will have to satisfy the service requirement of the Court. Uncontested divorces of this sort can run from a few hundred to several thousand dollars.
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