Please do not type in caps. It makes it very hard to read and sounds like you are screaming or yelling at us. Get what finalized? If you never filed a divorce case ythen you have to file and serve her first. Do you know where she is? Are there children? You need to consult with a local divorce attorney. You can still get divorced by publication after making a diligent effort to locate her.
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