Apologies, but I do not understand the legal issue or legal problem you are having. I am not sure if the space limitations cut you off or not.
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I am unclear about what you want. However, I can tell you that your Indian Culture, though founded in a great deal of history and tradition, has no legal bearing in family Law in California. That being said, you have parental rights to see and communicate with your children and you should get an attorney here to get that established for you. As for sending the children to India, that may be very difficult to convince a court about that one. You should make plans to come here for a visit after you you get an attorney.
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