You need to speak to an experienced family law attorney, and figure out, after reviewing all the facts, what your rights and responsibilities are going to look like. Therapists aren't attorneys, and you don't pay them for their predictions of what a judge may or may not do. You may want to discuss with a therapist, and an attorney, what time-sharing arrangement would be best for your daughter, and how to make that work.
I agree with the previous answer, you really need to consult an attorney in your area who can give you confidential advice. Black letter law starts at a 50/50 split so start by expecting that and fight for primary custody of your child.
Good luck, you have a long road ahead@
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Your inquiries involved somewhat complex matters. The court will determine the custody and visitation issues based on the child's best interests. If the mother is having anger issues that are impacting the child and her desire to spend time with her mother, that is something the court will consider regarding the time share arrangement. Mom can also be ordered to attend counseling or anger management classes to address anger issues. The child's preferences may also be considered and given due weight. Once the timeshare is established, the court will set child support based on the guideline formula in California, which factors in each party's net income and the timeshare percentage. Spousal support is based on a long list of factors, but primarily the lower income earner's need and the higher earner's ability to pay based on the marital standard of living. Typically, in 50/50 custodial situations, the higher income earner has around 55% of the combined net spendable income after the payment of support. I would be happy to assist with providing more detailed information specific to your case and to represent you in court proceedings for dissolution of your marriage, including resolution of the custody, visitation and support issues. If you would like further assistance, please feel free to contact my office. 619-338-8393.
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