You need to hire an attorney to contact his attorney to find out if he is filing or not, file for divorce if he isn't soon, get a restraining order as a part of the divorce filing to prevent the disposal or change of any property & file a motion to set temporary support. Once you are granted temporary support, have your doctors document that you are unable to proceed with the divorce and sit back and collect his money for a few years until he can get you back in Court. Then just before trial agree to an ID divorce if he agrees to some negotiated one time payment of alimony.
I'm not your attorney and the answer above is fact dependent.
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