You could change phones, or even dump the cell phone altogether. You could hire a licensed Private Investigator to look into this pattern of conduct for you.
You might even find it helpful to seek out the services of a skilled and experienced mental health counselor to help you to cope with the anxiety and distress of this situation until it is resolved.
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