In theory, you could, sure. But you would likely have to admit that you had punched him first, which would expose you to criminal liability. You should definitely consult with an attorney before filing anything in court. This process could be very damaging to you both.
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Do you still have the bruises and marks? If so, you have a better chance with the judge as he/she can see the injuries. Slashed tire? Ask you attorney about a stalking order. A consultation with an experienced FAPA attorney is all you will need, in order to proceed confidently. Good luck.
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This is a bit of a judgment call here. I can see both Mr. Bodzin's and Ms. Gruber's points. On one hand, this could potentially end up in a situation where assault/battery charges are filed against both of you or the ex also seeks a restraining order. On the other, if you are in danger of further abuse from your ex, you should protect yourself from future contact. I suggest you schedule a one-on-one consultation with a family law attorney so you can tell give them all the details and get advice as to your options. In the meantime, don't post any more details that could possibly be used against you on this public website.
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The short answer is yes, you can still get a restraining order. What is required is that he caused you injury, or put you in fear of injury, within the last 180 days (6 months). The fact that he has done this more than once only strengthens your ability to get the restraining order, as it shows that you have a reasonable fear of further harm in the future.
The more complex answer, however, takes into account the concerns raised by other attorneys here. If you hit him first, you may open yourself up to criminal liability. It may be worth it, as you may not actually get charged with anything or you may have a good defense for having hit him, but that's something that you need to think about prior to filing a court document in which you admit to hitting him. Others recommend speaking to a family law attorney prior to filing, but it likely would be good to speak to someone who knows about criminal law as well.
No matter what, it's important to take steps to keep yourself safe in the future. Whether or not you filing for a restraining order, make sure that you distance yourself from this man. If there are children involved, it is especially important that you take steps toward safety. Good luck.Ask a similar question