After 2 year good, intimate relationship with boyfriend, moved in together and found out by 2nd month no good. I found another place to live. Have had several fights where he has pushed or hit me, including police called by my sister when he slashed tire and threw me through drywall at our mutual home. Two days ago I went to get the last of my belongings and he accused me of stealing cash from his wallet. Argument followed, I hit him once in face, he grabbed me by head, hitting my head and ears with fist 10 times, kicked me numerous times, threw me around. Bruised and sore all over. Eventho I hit him first, can I get a restraining order against him.