Based on the custodial time alone, the law supports your request to move. With included dv incident, appears very unlikely the court would go against mediator and case lawand give father custody. by the way a change of custody recommendation is only in the event that you move away, I have never seen it happen if the custodial parent changes her mind about moving away.
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It comes down to the evidence. You cannot get a response to your question here. Facts are important and you need to consult with an attorney. You need prove by a preponderance of evidence if an act of violence took place. I will only tell you this that restraining orders affect the person's rights greatly and judges do not hand them out easily on a permanent basis, especially in circumstances where the Court does not see reason for further acts of violence in the future.
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There is a lot to analyze and you should consider hiring an attorney. If you can't afford a fully retained attorney, you should consider hiring one on a limited scope basis. You should at least hire an attorney for an office consultation. If he has a lawyer, you should be prepared. The fact that the report is in your favor is a good first step.
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