My husband and I have taken care of my dad at home for 7 years since his stroke . The only time in 7 years my dad got sick and was in the hospital the doctor refused to release him to my husband and me and demanded we let him go to a nursing home so we let him. Now 1 month later my dad is a shell of the person he was and refuses to eat an drink and won't take his meds or let the nurses take blood for labs and diabetes checks. He has fallen several times from his wheel chair and bed and has been to the ER twice. He is severely unhappy and wants to come home. Can I legally take him out of the nursing home before they kill him.