Sorry to hear this. I would suggest that the bank will have a difficult time releasing information to you if you are not on the account. You may need to get a court order to find out what happened. You should work with your lawyer on a timeline of what happened and exactly what you instructed the bank to do or not to do and any proof you have of that process. good luck and take care.
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The bank will act depending on how the title to the account is held. If you are not an account holder, you will not have access to the information from the bank itself. The first issue is to determine in whose name the account is held. If the funds are yours, your name should be on the account so that you can get the information.
Advice provided is of a general nature to provide guidance. Divorce law is state specific. One should always check the laws in their home jurisdiction.
If the lawyer acted against your best interst, and even acted to benefit his/herself (versus your best interest as the client) you may have an ethical issue as it relates to the lawyer's conduct. Further, the lawyer should give you documentation related to ANYTHING he/she did on your behalf. As for the bank, if they acted improperly, keep going up the chain manager to district manager, etc.