It can be dismissed, but no attorney can tell you that it will be dismissed for sure. If we were to handle this case, we would meet with you, request a jury trial if it has not been done already, our investigator would meet with your mother and any other witnesses to get statements, and if the case is not dismissed we would try the case to a jury. You need to meet with an attorney and talk about the details in person - you cannot get specific legal advice on a forum such as this.
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Did the prosecutor/city attorney have any objection to dropping it? Prosecutors hold full discretion when it comes to dropping charges. The charges are not dropped unless the prosecutor decides not to go forward. Worst case scenario, if this is your first offense, you can get a conditional discharge and end up getting the charge expunged, if you satisfy the conditions set forth by the prosecuting attorney. A criminal defense attorney can you help you with that.
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I can tell you that when I was a prosecutor, I would never take a case like this to trial for that very reason, because a reluctant victim, especially a family member, will probably not show up for court, and I would never want a jury to here that the defendant's mother had to be brought in to testify on a bench warrant for failing to abide by a subpoena--sure fire acquittal. I agree that you need to have an attorney who can get your prosecutor to realize how bad their case is before you get to trial.