If you are in imminent danger, file a report with the police. A name change can be handled by any lawyer. best of luck.
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Before you go to the nuclear option, pay a skip tracer a few dollars and get advice as to how you could disconnect. Remember, your name change is usually served by publication. There are more effective ways to change your footprint. Then be more discreet about sharing personal info.