If your daughter has a good relationship with him and wants to visit, you should let her visit. The Crap that's between you and your ex husband should not be your daughters concern. It should also not interfere with her relationship with her siblings.
Every legal matter is fact specific, and there are often nuances in every case. This is intended for comment only, and does not create an attorney client relationship.
no good answer.she is not his child; so there are no rights that he has. if she is interested in going, might be better to show that you are only caring about her and being fair to him. perhaps he sees that and relents on something you want.
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