You should probably have counsel, since you (understandably) have no mastery over this process. Nevertheless, ordinarily, a lawyer would pick up the phone previously and cetainly at this point and try to resolve the issues for withdrawal of the motion to compel, if approriate. Sanctions can be levied, including the attorney's fees for having to file the motion if you were in the wrong here.
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