Your first mistake (well obviously not really your first mistake), was hiring a paralegal and expecting legal advice. Paralegals can not give legal advice. They are not lawyers. They prepare legal papers and should only do so under the supervision of lawyers. You had no legal responsibility to pay for an abortion. You similarly have no legal duty to pay for her legal fees or hospital bill. Seek out a local attorney to get real legal advice.
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Hire a local experienced lawyer, not a paralegal, to assist you. Seek to have the paralegal give you the money back.
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Stop talking to a "paralegal." I use quotaton marks because I don't know any real paralegals who think they can give legal advice and negotiate agreements for people. Speak to a lawyer in your area BEFORE you give any more money to anyone.
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YOU NEED TO STOP! Take a breath and think. It sounds like your gut is telling you the paralegal is not giving you sound legal advise. Listen to your gut! A paralegal is not a lawyer and should not be viewed as one. You have already provided this woman with $5500. This is $5500 too much. You have no obligation to pay for an abortion. My best advise, contact a local attorney to represent your interests.