No, should not be in trouble.
You need to get divorced from this guy,
You need to get counseling from a domestic violence program. There are many in the Chicago area.
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Well you are not the defendant. Sounds like you married a real criminal and you need to be talking to a divorce attorney. You really need to get counseling.
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