to be honest I do not know how to file or how to respond my husband is trying to finish the divorce after 12 years.
There’s no one on a free website and I can tell you what’s happening with your divorce or what age to happen next. You need to schedule a consult with an attorney. It’s possible that I won’t be a lot that needs to be done so you won’t need to spend a lot, but you simply must seek a pain consult.
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You can't stop the divorce if that is what you are asking. As to what you should do, it depends. You need to talk to a family law attorney.
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