I have filed a divorce somewhere back in NOV 2010. My lawyer has gotten me as far as mediation since that was settled around the month april 2012. My soon to be divorced wife has broken rules in the mediation but my lawyer claims that she cant do anything because it hasnt been signed by the judge. months has passed and im sick of waiting and now she wants me to go back to mediation. i dont know what to do now. I want this divorce done i dont understand why its taking so long we already have a final judgement. i was thinking about getting her to withdraw but i dont know how to do that or even know if that is the wise thing to do. im really sick of this. can you please help me?