We have been to cort there is a temp order that my ex is not fully following he has a loyer as I do not and 50 50 is what I would like he has all-ready been keeping her from me and every time she is with me when I have to take her back she will hide and cry and throw fit and even hold on to the door frame it brakes my heart she is 7 .
To begin with, you really need to have your own lawyer. Not having an attorney is a big mistake in a custody dispute. There are preferences for "joint custody" which may not be best in your case. As such, you need to prepare to vigorously assert your custody claims and concerns to do what truly is in the child's best interests.
You need to get with an aggressive family law attorney who has experience with divorce, custody and difficult cases. I know what these cases are like, having handled a number. Do your online research and get moving forward. Please understand that this site does not allow us to recommend any attorney or firm.
You need to get moving ... as in today, to hire an attorney and handle this matter correctly from the outset. Or, you can try doing it yourself, and bumble through. Of the two options, which choice is best for your children, and your rights with those children? You should be able to get in with attorneys today, I know that I have some openings. So, check around.
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