Kentucky law allows for you to ask the court to appoint a Warning Order Attorney to try to make contact with your ex at his last known address. Once the Warning Order Attorney does that, he files a report with the court and you will be allowed to at least dissolve the marriage and return to the status of a single person. If you are trying to do this pro se, it might be a little complicated. Some clerks' offices have forms to request a WOA. If yours doesn't, it would probably be in your best interest to consult with a lawyer.
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