My wife (was my fiancee then) immigrated to US in 1999. I came in US in 2000 by paroled in at Newark airport. I was detained and requested for asylum. I was deported back to China after my asylum was denied. I came in again with B2 visa by using a passport with my name and photo, not my birthday. My wife is US citizen and my two children are US born. My I-130 is approved. Can my wife file I-485 adjustment for me? My son has medium level ADHD problem. Am i legible for 212 and 601 waiver?