I join my colleagues in recommending the retention of counsel. I applaud you for the work that you have already done in the case pro se; it sounds like to are studying the court rules and have a good sense of how the case is progressing, and that is not an easy thing for many people to do. In addition to the rules governing discovery that you referenced, you may want to look at Rule 11 as well.
In Colorado, unlike many other states, attorneys are allowed to provided unbundling of legal services, meaning that you can hire an attorney to help you with one facet of the case while you would still be responsible for the case yourself. Such an arrangement can help make the truly needed legal services more affordable. Indeed, you may be able to structure a retainer agreement such that representation is geared to defending against sanctionable misconduct.
There is another cost saving option: there is a growing number of attorneys, such as myself, who offer reduced fees to clients of modest means or to clients with cases with a relatively low prospective recovery as a means of increasing access to justice.
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I am almost positive that the opposing attorney is taking advantage of your because you are pro se. As a judge, I saw it all of the time in front of me and there was nothing that I could to help them. It was like watching a deer in the headlights and was brutal to see. You are in a butt-kicking contest with both feet being tied together. You are totally a novice with no legal experience and are taking on an attorney with a doctorate degree and with years of experience. If this case matters to you, you will go out and schedule appointments with various attorneys tomorrow and choose one who is the right fix. You are trying to basically do open-heart surgery with no medical training.
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Messrs. Leroi and Hoffman are correct. I would only add that representing yourself is like trying to do open heart surgery on yourself in an unlit room.
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You need to understand the sanction rule and then apply them. Don't just take BS. If you really cannot afford an attorney or find one who can do this for contingency, you should at least have an attorney to advise you under a limited representation. It is money well spent and those fees could reimbursed for sanctions and the like. Good luck and start calling.
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