My fears were confirmed when my boss called me into her office, she pulled out a note pad of "instances" she wanted to ask me about. I found out she asked all my co-workers to watch me and report back to her my work performance. I feel this is a violation of my privacy as an individual to have been scrutinized by all I work with. She was stating that I take "too long" helping customers (I am the oldest one there, 44yrs old).
Another instance of my being treated differently, is the fact that our company doesn't want overtime, so I was told to "adjust my hours accordingly", and when I did adjust (come in later to offset working over), now she is saying I have been late for work, and plans to write me up for these instances.
No one else has been repremanded in this way, and I know that another girl has came in late many times without them harrassing her.
I really feel I am working in a hostile workplace, I cannot trust anyone I work with and would like to know my options.