Mr. Deasy is absolutely correct. You don't say what type of contempt action you have so it is difficult to provide more information here. Contempt actions are complicated and really should be done with the assistance of an attorney. Many of us on Avvo provide free consultations and you would be well served to contact one in your area (or one who practices in whatever district your case is in).
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Do you have an attorney? If not, you really ought to retain counsel because contempt matters are tricky when it comes to the presentation of evidence.
The judge will expect you to be able to prove an order was in place, that the opposing party knew of the order, that the opposing party willfully disobeyed the order, and that the other party had the ability to pay (or has the present ability to pay). If you able to prove each of those things, either beyond a reasonable doubt if seeking punitive sanctions or by a preponderance of the evidence if seeking remedial sanctions, you may indeed prevail.
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You need to show the Court what was ordered by the Court (what amounts he was supposed to pay) and how much of that he actually paid. If you have all the numbers straight, your testimony will provide evidence of what you did and did not receive.
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