Since I am pro per I have to communicate with counsel myself. When I do call in the staff is rude and very hostile. I had to request a hearing being rescheduled once and had a legit reason was trying to work it out with counsel so they didn't show up to court and waste their time with me not there ... I never requested a delay before but they have and when I mentioned that I would just like the sane courtesy they said ... "Well he is in the military he defends our country if he needs an extension etc" WTH ? My ex was attending a meeting in San Diego for recruiters he wasn't getting deployed I had to request an extension because I had to be in bankruptcy court at same time and couldn't extend that again without refiling is this normal how pro pers are treated is there anything I can do?