If I understand your question correctly, you are on probation for the state jail felony offense of DWI with Child
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I agree that it is wise to proceed as though your PO will find out.
That said, best he or she finds out from you. Make an appointment as soon as possible. Go in and explain honestly and straight forwardly what happened. This is always the best approach with Probation - be honest and take responsibility.