I wouldn't necessarily describe this as a problem with the immigration officer. There could have been a myriad of valid reasons for her asking questions about your father. For example, if you derived your lawful permanent residence through him then the question is very relevant.
Continue having troubles. Complaint to the supervisor. Complaint to the Congressional representative or hire an immigration attorney.
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