I need to know the best approach to take during the meditation to establish 50/50 physical and legal custody. A little back ground, me and my sons mother was never married. I was active duty Marine and was able to see my son anytime I wanted at her apartment that is in both of our names. Since then she has gotten into a relationship and I could no longer see my son as often. She allows me to take him every other weekend. I am also paying her $500.00 dollars a month for support. She has recently went to the Department of Child Support Services and ask them to open a case against me. For reasons unknown to me. She tells them that I see him every other weekend (based off what she allows). I love my son and need to see him more often. Please advise.