....you are not the only woman that goes throught serious financial harship due to her husband's unability to co op with his deep psychological contradictions... maybe he is a good man but I am sorry your husband left your marriage long time ago.. A man, any man or woman, that does not dedicate themself to his/her family , spouse and children,can become a lost cause for that family...I am sorry but you really need to face the situation.... from your posting you appear that you really love your husband but you reached a point that your love is not enough to support your family life..you are an educated person and you must understand that if your husband can not understand that his family is his most important wealth in life then you need to address the issue with marriage counseling .
finally the control of finances is a method that controlling persons use to control their families..
You need to brake the cycle..i wish you the best of luck
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I totally agree with attorney Powers, your husband is loser.
Please only call me if your case is in California as I am only licensed here and laws of other states may vary. I approach trials and issues from a legal and common sense approach, This is how the majority of judges I have appeared before in 40 years also make decisions. I do not intend by my advice to enter an attorney client relationship and in most cases advise to obtain legal representation. Sometimes if you can not afford it a consultation or limited scope representation is available. As an experienced attorney I can tell you, judges can be impatient, hate emotional arguments and over exagerations or lies. A brief outline of the problems and desired solutions is always best and I often in limited scope representations advise clients on how to proceed at time of hearing or trial and my fees are considerably less when I do not appear in court as it takes much less of my time.
You have a lot of issues here that need addressing by an attorney. There is no interference statue here. Also, your H"s inheritance is his separate property but you might have community property rights that need to be explored.
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