It sounds like an ugly divorce and most courts will see it that way since they often see this type of thing as people split up with one another and simply can't accept it.
Best to consult with a local criminal defense lawyer immediately as well as a matrimonial attorney (often one in the same) and see about your alternatives.
Good luck. I don't think you'll go to jail for this one, but if you go near her again, then all bets are off.
That will depend.
Our firm has handled such cases, and generally the charges (with only one witness) are hard to convict, so they are generally reduced. However, if you have a history of domestic violence, or disorderly conduct you make it easier for them.
Further, wisconsin has a statute that allows the court to take into account domestic violence and reports of same. So, will this effect your divorce, custody, and placement, YES, it may.
Without representation you are walking into a trap. It is important to say that testimony that occurs in your family law matter can be used against you in your criminal matter. You do not have the right to the 5th in the family court. Refusing to testify will look really bad for you (honesty wise). So, you are SOL either way. With representation, the attorney will keep you out of trouble.
It is especially important to have the same attorney (at least firm) for both the family and criminal matters.
Good luck, and seek counsel.
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