It is always troubling to see people cloaking themselves with assurances that they have posted or stated nothing but the "truth" when faced with the possibility of a defamation suit. Yes, truth is a complete and wonderful and valedictory defense. But truth is all too often in the eye of the beholder. And even if you have posted only a truth that will survive the ages, if you get sued (and you can be sued) it takes several thousand dollars of defense work to get to the point of establishing your truth in court and causing the case to be dismissed for that reason. You don't just greet the process server at the door and refuse the matter because "it is all true." And you don't just stroll into court and let the judge know that the case can be flushed because you only stated the truth. If you get sued, you will be defending in court and with an attorney for as much as a year before the court turns to making an assessment of your truth.
There is nothing laudatory about you posting personal info for the explicit purposes of causing trouble in someone else's marriage, even if that person shouldn't have done what they done. And your ear is sorely out of tune if you are expecting that any judge or jury would ultimately see you as the noble one here.
And, no, you can't sue him successfully for misrepresenting himself to you. Of course he deserves it -- but that is not the policy or position of the law.
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If everything you have posted to date is 100% TRUE and you can prove that its true, there is nothing he can do. However, the most important thing you must ensure is that what you are posting is PROVABLY true. Your best option is to put him and your relationship with him behind you. The sooner you move on with your life, the less stress this will cause you.
I am not sure what you mean about you creating an "alternate Facebook page." Is everything on this "alternate" Facebook page true and correct?
You may benefit from reviewing the Legal Guide I have published on Avvo.com which deals with defamation issues. You can access the Guide through my profile page. Truth is a defense to a defamation claim. In the interim, I suggest that you make sure that you have appropriate renter's or homeowner's insurance which covers you for liability regarding defamation claims.
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